Memory and Grief

I posted this to a friend grieving the loss of her husband:

The way of grief seems to be a special wiring with our memory...I know what I experienced is NO WAY like what you have experienced but I remember when Brian at age 15 was gone for a year to Australia as an exchange student. Jon Secada's song: "Just Another Day" would hit me SO hard. I knew he was returning but still the words of missing him were almost more than I could bare.